Actress Stella Damasus recently shared a deeply emotional post on her Instagram, commemorating the 19th anniversary of her late husband’s passing. In the heartfelt tribute, Damasus affectionately referred to him as “my teddy bear,” “my king,” and “my heartbeat,” expressing the profound sorrow and enduring love she still feels. She shared how his departure had initially stopped her heart but emphasized the strength required for the sake of their children, showcasing her resilience and dedication as a mother.
“19 years gone. My JAY, My Jaibad, my teddy bear, my lover, my king, husband of my youth, my knight in shining armor, my gist partner, my teacher, my padi, my heartbeat, father of my children.
My heart literally stopped when I lost you. But it had to start beating again for the sake of the girls. We all miss you so much but we are strong just like you taught us to be. You are my angel. My lover forever.
You will never be forgotten. NEVER. It doesn’t get any easier with each passing year, but I am holding on to the promise that we will meet again to part no more. I love you forever my lover. Hmmmm! It is well.
Continue to rest my love. #rip
Damasus’ post extended beyond remembrance, delving into how she and her daughters are coping with the loss. She described their collective effort to maintain the strength instilled by her late husband. The ongoing struggle with his absence was evident, yet so was their determination to honor his memory by living the values he had imparted.
In a previous podcast interview with Teju Babyface, Stella candidly discussed her failed marriage with Daniel Ademinokan. Damasus revealed the shocking way she discovered her divorce – through social media. She recounted the pain of learning about the dissolution of her marriage and the hurtful words used by her husband to describe their union, all while she was left in the dark.
The actress opened up about the betrayal she felt, having believed her marriage to Ademinokan was a deep and soulful connection. She had thought they shared similar mindsets and dreams. The revelation of her husband’s departure, along with his subsequent refusal to return, marked a significant emotional blow for Damasus, making it her second heartbreak after the loss of her first husband.
Complicating matters further, her ex-husband, Ademinokan, seemingly threw shade at Damasus following her public discussion of their split. His cryptic social media post, featuring a warning sign, was widely interpreted as a signal to Damasus to refrain from discussing their relationship publicly.
