Masturbation is a form of sexual self-pleasure that involves some form of physical stimulation of the genitals, typically by fondling, caressing, and stroking.
Many Ghanaians, particularly the youth, masturbate frequently, while others do so only occasionally, but it is true that masturbation is on the rise in Ghana and elsewhere, possibly due to an increase in a single life.
Because some Ghanaians masturbate even when they are married and have a good sex life, it could be a microcosm of our increasing acts of indiscipline.
Types of orgasm
There are two types of masturbation: infant and adult. Masturbation is something that almost everyone does. Children are naturally curious about various parts of their bodies.
Because our genital nerve endings are sensitive, a child feels pleasant genital sensations or good feelings when touched.
It is less intense than orgasm but is considered a type of orgasm. Masturbation in children is thus normal and must be accepted.
As a child accepts his body and sexual feelings, he develops self-esteem. It is the first step towards adult sexual enjoyment.
Adolescents who are becoming sexually aware may inadvertently engage in masturbation.
Sexual interest in children typically declines between the ages of six and ten. If an adult masturbates after childhood, it could be due to a psychosexual disorder triggered by feelings of guilt, being unloved, or physical, sexual, and emotional abuse during childhood.
Why do some people masturbate
Masturbation is a natural and healthy method of sexual release.
It alleviates tension or stress.
It is simple, inexpensive, and does not necessitate agreement with another person.
There is no risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS, and there is no risk of pregnancy.
Some people masturbate because their partners have a low sexual drive while they have a high sexual drive.
When their lovers are unavailable, sick, pregnant, disabled, or lactating, some resort to masturbation.
Masturbation is used by some people to learn their sexual responses and to explore their sexuality.
Women who can induce orgasms through masturbation are more likely to have orgasms with their partners.
Masturbating for 10-15 minutes without ejaculating reduces the risk of premature ejaculation.
Masturbation, contrary to popular belief, does not cause blindness, illness, stroke, insanity, or low sexual drive.
It does not imply that you are a homosexual.
The danger
Nobody despises but loves his body. Masturbation is a form of bodily abuse. It is idolatrous and lustful.
It becomes selfish when used to avoid marital sex. Masturbation is thus a sin.
Masturbation can become addictive and follow you into marriage. Some people can’t have sex with their partners unless they first masturbate.
Some people lose control, dedication, and interest in marital sex.
This makes your wife unhappy and insecure.
You can’t have a happy marriage because you’re more likely to commit other sexual sins.
Masturbation causes guilt, which predisposes people to emotional, mental, and social problems.
You should also be aware that the term ‘virgin’ is derived from the word for someone who is completely asexual.
You lose your virginity when you masturbate.
Accept the fact that masturbation is wrong today.
When you use your body for immoral purposes, you pervert it.
Values and roles cannot be separated.
Masturbation provides temporary relief, but it cannot compensate for the loss of deep and total emotional satisfaction over a lifetime.
A quick fix could turn into a long-term issue.
Recognize that nature has its own method of relieving stress.
Wet dreams cause men to expel seminal fluid.
Women’s menstrual flow expels eggs and cleanses the womb.
Vigorous exercise, on your part, is the best way to relieve physical and emotional tension.
Make every effort to avoid masturbation because it has the potential to ruin your relationship and future marriage.
Turn to other interesting activities as soon as you start thinking about them and want to do them.
Dance or converse with someone.
Watch a movie.
You can also go for a walk, read, and, most importantly, pray.
Withdrawal, like drug addiction, is painful in the beginning, but if you can hold on for a couple of weeks, you can get out of it.
Nothing will happen to you except what you think about it.
If necessary, seek professional help.
Any genital love must be an act of expressing love for another and being open to the possibility of creating life.
Masturbation falls short on both counts.
Masturbation is therefore unacceptable and must be avoided.
