Taylor Swift Surprises Fans with Performance of “Dear John” and Requests Respect for Subject of Song.
During her concert in Minneapolis, Taylor Swift delighted fans with a surprise performance of “Dear John” and took a moment to address the speculation surrounding the song’s subject. In a candid statement, Swift expressed her detachment from events of the past and emphasized her focus on the music she created.
At 33 years old, Swift shared, “I don’t care about anything that happened to me when I was 19 except the songs I wrote.” She went on to clarify that her upcoming album release shouldn’t prompt fans to defend her online against anyone they believe the song might be about from many years ago. Swift urged her audience to channel their support into positive actions rather than engaging in internet controversies.
Taylor Swift on the release of ‘Speak Now’ TV before performing ‘Dear John’:
“I’m 33 years old, I don’t care about anything that happened to me when I was 19… I’m not putting this album out so you can go on the internet and defend me against someone you think I wrote a song… pic.twitter.com/cFQbKQk8vD
— Pop Base (@PopBase) June 25, 2023
Rolling Stone reported that this marked the first performance of “Dear John” in 11 years. Originally released in 2010, the song will be included in the upcoming re-recorded version of Swift’s album “Speak Now.” It has long been speculated that the heartfelt ballad was inspired by her brief relationship with musician John Mayer, which occurred from December 2009 to February 2010. Although Mayer was not directly mentioned in the song, the lyrics alluded to a failed romance with an older man.
In a 2012 interview with Rolling Stone, Mayer acknowledged the impact the song had on him, expressing feeling terrible about its release. He also criticized the songwriting as “cheap” and felt targeted when he was already going through a tough time. Swift, on the other hand, has never confirmed publicly that “Dear John” is specifically about Mayer.
As she performed the song, Swift praised her fans for their kindness and encouraged them to extend that same kindness to their online interactions. With this heartfelt plea, she aimed to foster a more positive and compassionate digital environment.
Swift’s recent surprise performance of “Dear John” reminded fans of her musical prowess and sparked a renewed discussion about the song’s origins.

