Sis, Your Natural Hair Deserves Some Love Too
Braids, wigs, and weaves? Absolute lifesavers. They make styling effortless, protect your natural hair, and let you switch things up whenever you feel like it.
One day, you’re rocking sleek knotless braids, and the next, you’re giving full-on diva vibes with a 22-inch wig. We love to see it!
But while protective styles can be a game-changer, sometimes your scalp and strands are silently crying out, “Help, I need a break!”
Just because your hair is tucked away doesn’t mean it’s thriving. Too much tension, glue, or straight-up neglect can lead to thinning, breakage, and even bald spots.
Taking a break doesn’t mean saying goodbye to your favorite styles forever—it just means giving your natural hair the TLC it deserves.
So, how do you know when it’s time to hit pause? Here are five signs your hair is begging for a time-out:
1. Your Edges Are Missing in Action
Let’s start with the biggest red flag—your edges. If they’re thinning or straight-up disappearing, sis, it’s time to rethink those tight braids and glued-down wigs.
Styles like cornrows and sew-ins can put too much stress on your delicate hairline, causing traction alopecia (aka hair loss from pulling). And once those edges are gone, getting them back isn’t easy.
What to do instead:
Let your edges rest. Swap tight styles for looser ones, massage your hairline with castor or rosemary oil, and avoid anything that tugs at your baby hairs.
2. Your Scalp Feels Like It’s on Fire
A little itchiness when you first get your hair done? Normal. Constant soreness, irritation, or a burning scalp? Not normal.
This could mean your hair was braided too tight, you’re reacting to glue or synthetic hair, or there’s too much product buildup clogging your scalp. Ignoring it can lead to sores or even long-term scalp issues.
What to do instead:
Take out the style. Cleanse and condition your scalp with a soothing shampoo. Give your hair a break before your next install, and avoid super-tight styles or glue-heavy wigs.
3. You Haven’t Seen Your Natural Hair in Forever
If you can’t remember the last time you washed, moisturized, or detangled your real hair, it’s time to check in.
Protective styles only protect when you actually care for your hair underneath. Keeping it hidden for months without proper maintenance is like locking a plant in a dark closet and expecting it to grow—it won’t.
What to do instead:
Take your hair out. Wash it. Deep condition it. Give it some air for a few weeks. A simple bun, twist-out, or low-maintenance style can help your strands reset.
4. Your Hair is Thinning or Breaking Like Crazy
If your hair is looking sparse or snaps every time you touch it, that’s a huge red flag.
Too much tension, dryness, or rough handling (especially when removing weaves or braids) can leave your strands weak and fragile.
How to fix it:
Trim damaged ends. Stick to low-manipulation styles. Keep your hair hydrated and be extra gentle—this is not the time for another six-hour braiding session.
5. You’re Just Over It—and That’s Okay
Sometimes, your scalp is fine, your edges are intact, but you’re just tired. Tired of glue. Tired of itchy wigs. Tired of spending hours in the salon chair.
And guess what? That’s a perfectly valid reason to hit reset.
What to do instead:
Go for something simple. Rock your fro. Throw your hair in a puff. Try a low-cut if you’re feeling bold. Give yourself the freedom to embrace your natural hair and enjoy the break.
At the end of the day, your hair should make you feel good, not stressed. So, listen to what it’s telling you and show it some love!