Blessing CEO, the outspoken Nigerian relationship coach, has spoken out after announcing the end of her relationship with IVD — a post that caught many by surprise.
Her Instagram announcement stirred reactions online, but Blessing later explained that it was all part of an experiment to test her ability to create buzz.
“I felt like I was losing my touch of controversy, so I decided to test it again. Guess what? I still got the magic. They really love bad news! Boo boo for life. Wedding loading,” she said with her signature humor.
Beyond the drama, Blessing CEO also weighed in on the ongoing clash between reality star Phyna and activist VeryDarkMan (VDM).
In a video shared on Sunday, she expressed sympathy for Phyna’s loss but criticized the way she handled her fallout with VDM, calling it an act of ingratitude considering his previous support.
She advised Phyna to have sought help from other public figures instead of turning her disagreement with VDM into an online battle and aligning with his rival, Izzy Ogbeide.
Blessing further accused Phyna of allowing her sister’s health situation to become internet content, reminding her that activists are human too and deserve appreciation.
“Phyna, I’m sorry about your sister’s death, but please learn from this. Don’t let anger take over. Watch your words, especially in emotional moments — because the devil only needs a small chance to turn things against you,” she said.
She continued, “This isn’t just about you and VeryDarkMan; it’s about gratitude. Even if someone once offended you, remember their kindness and stay quiet. If you didn’t want to work with VDM, you could have reached out to people like Harrison, Daddy Freeze, or Brekete. But instead, you went to Izzy Ogbeide just to spite him, and he used you to fight VDM.”
Blessing wrapped up her message with a reminder about the power of gratitude: “When people are ungrateful, it drains others. Gratitude lifts you higher, even in tough times.”
