Nigerian singer and politician Banky W recently shared insights on managing validation-seeking behavior on social media, stressing the importance of not letting others’ opinions control one’s life.
During a guest appearance on the Who’s In My House show hosted by Hawa Magaji, Banky W discussed how he and his wife Adesua Etomi-Wellington maintain their privacy. He emphasized that they’ve learned not to be swayed by people’s opinions, advising against seeking validation from the comments section.
Banky W acknowledged the natural inclination to care about others’ opinions but cautioned against allowing those opinions to dictate one’s actions. While it’s normal to care, he highlighted the danger of being controlled by external judgments.
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He noted the societal shift towards prioritizing validation over authenticity, where people may do things solely to trend or gain attention. Despite the temptation to seek validation, Banky W encouraged individuals to resist this urge and remain true to themselves.
The interview provided valuable insights into navigating the complexities of social media and maintaining authenticity in a world driven by validation-seeking behavior.
