Why deny yourself the pleasure all in the name of a “first date”?
Everyone has a different idea of how a first date should end.
Some people believe that you should wait to sleep with someone new until you’ve known them for more than a few hours, but having sex on the first date isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
There is no obligation to have sex on the first date. But if you’re in the mood, no one should judge you if you get yours after a few drinks.
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There’s no “game”
When you sleep with someone, you’ve moved past that strange first-date zone. You’ve bonded to the point where you’re comfortable seeing each other naked, which is nothing. The subsequent texts and hangout sessions are simply easier from there. After you’ve gotten down and dirty together, there’s less of a need to beat around the bush in order to progress to the next stage of the relationship.
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You get to know someone
First dates can be uncomfortable. You can finally relax when you leave the bar and start getting physical.
Obviously, you’re both letting your guard down, so you can see what the person is like all the time, not just on the first date.
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It’s good for your health
Sex is beneficial to your health. Please don’t feel bad about having sex and satisfying your needs on a first date. There is no harm as long as you are safe about it.
Whatever happens in the end, having sex with someone right away is definitely a good idea if it’s what you want to do (which, frankly, is the only part of this that ultimately matters).
